Artist, who grew up in foster care, says try to be happy. The longest life is short
A MARTÍNEZ, HOST:
Time now for StoryCorps. The artist Tchin, known for designing for brands such as Cartier, belongs to the Narragansett tribe. He grew up as a foster kid in Rhode Island and Virginia. And as he told his daughter, Xiao Hui Star, he was often one of the few Indigenous people in town.
TCHIN: I looked different than everybody else. There was either white people or Black people, and there was me (laughter), and so I stood out. And the cops would stop me sometimes, even as a young kid, they would stop me and go, you know, you don't belong in this neighborhood. I was living in Rhode Island, and Rhode Island School of Design had a, like, summer scholarship, so I entered the competition. And the art teacher said, they don't want people like you. I stopped drawing ever since then.
XIAO HUI STAR: Wow.
TCHIN: Yeah, it hurt a long time.
STAR: How old were you?
TCHIN: I might have been 13. People would say, like, you know, you're going to end up in jail, or you're not going to ever become anything or anything like that. And I was like, I'm going to prove them wrong. I need to go somewhere. I need more than this. And I went to New York. And I slept in hallways, and I slept in the subways, and I slept in Grand Central Station. I really couldn't read and write very well. And when I did have jobs, I usually weren't able to keep those jobs. And then I learned to read and write by forcing myself to read an encyclopedia. And I applied to go to an art school.
STAR: I would like to hear more about how you built the confidence to pursue an artistic career, which I see as quite risky.
TCHIN: It was a little scary, but because mommy did so much supporting us, it wasn't as scary as if I was the only breadwinner. And my joke was always that I did the cooking and the sewing, and mommy did the brickwork and the plumbing. And when you girls were growing up, I made it a point that we would always have family meals on the weekend. And I wanted to raise my girls as really strong, powerful women. I would always say, what can I do as a parent to make your life better? You girls would say, I didn't like when you raised your voice, and then I would learn to not be so tough on you. But you're navigating the world very well, all of you.
STAR: I'm 38, the age that you were when you had me. What advice do you have for me?
TCHIN: The sad thing about human beings is that we tend to remember the unhappy things. And I think my advice to you is just try to be happy. The longest life is short.
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MARTÍNEZ: That's Tchin and his daughter Xiao Hui Star. They joined StoryCorps in Philadelphia, and their conversation is archived in the Library of Congress.
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